Congrats, you’re going to be a father. It’s definitely a huge, life changing event. If you haven’t yet realized, changes are going to come. But that’s nothing to be afraid of. Although, new responsibilities are at hand and you do have to care for a new life, it’s an exciting time.
Clueless about the best way to meet people and get to know a new city? There’s a simple way to figure out where the best spot to go later in the evening is, or better yet, to understand how things work. Just head to a local cafe, and get the best insight on how the country you’re in operates. Learn if people are leisurely or rushed just by watching them drink some coffee.
There are people who love what they do and dedicate their lives to it, no matter what happens. Professional surfers are like this. I’ve always admired this commitment. Then there are those like me, people who know where they want to be, but realize they cannot drop everything, they need to work to earn the lifestyle they want. I’ve done it though, I wheeled and dealed and here I’ve made it. Sea-change at last.